What to see in Venice

Men in their condition of animal species are sexual beings and hence, we get pleasure from different stimuli. We have a million different sensations, some are of extreme pleasure and others of pain or distress, but it makes possible for us to exploit and explore the sensations that we like.

For example, when we are having sex, our partner (or ourselves) can stimulate almost any part of our body and cause us pleasure. Shoulders, back, waist, feet, hands, thighs, ears … Anything goes when seducing the other, but we also know that there are some special points that, when stimulated cause us too much pleasure.

One of these famous stimulation points is the “G-spot”, which women have at the anterior side of the vagina where the bladder can be “touched”. Men have it at the anterior side of the rectum where the prostate can be “touched”. Although this is the most famous spot, it is not the only one. There is also the A-spot in women.

The A-Spot is on the same side of the vagina where the G-spot is (anterior side), but about 3 or 4 centimeters above (in depth). It also stimulates the bladder but elsewhere and thereby it causes pleasure in a different but equally intense way.

In order to reach this point one must introduce two fingers into the vagina and touch the bottom, then take them out about 3 centimeters and start massaging the area very gently, always asking the woman where she likes most in order to find the exact location of each spot.

But like any sexual practice it requires prior preparation time where the two players are pampered and excited, to later reach the orgasm together. With the stimulation of this A-Spot, the woman can have an ejaculation, thing that causes her even more pleasure.

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Ideally, to enjoy these new sexual practices, the couple should be in a quiet, nice and private place where one can relax and surrender to pleasure. For this, rent apartments in Venice and enjoy the beautiful city and sex.

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Translated by: Maria
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We should all reserve the right to enjoy sex, right? So, what happens when we don’t enjoy it – what happens when the orgasm isn’t synonymous with pleasure; but, conversely, with it’s absence? Anorgasmia – or the disorder of the orgasm means the absence, or the persistent elusiveness of the orgasm after a period of normal sexual excitement. The Royal Academic dictionary simplifies this to “absence or deficiency of the sexual orgasm.”

In any case, I think the meaning’s clear. And if you suffer from anorgasmia, you should definitely seek professional advice, because there are solutions out there. Though it’s an issue mainly associated with women, men can get it too, and either way, individual psychotherapy is recommended.

But, what causes it? There are various different explanations – for example, that it is due to incorrect stimulation of the clitoris – or the more psychological side of things, such as anxiety, feelings of guilt at feeling pleasure, lack of confidence, and more seriously, as a result of a previous trauma such as rape or sexual abuse.

Along with these kinds of causes are people who suffer from anorgasmia due to medication or drugs which affect the nervous system.

So you see, there are all kinds of reasons, but they can all be treated, so if you suffer from it yourself: don’t suffer in silence, and visit a doctor. There is help available. It just requires a bit of time, and patience – but when a couple has confronted their sex issues, all that remains is to enjoy each other, and make up for lost time.

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You could, for example, plan a romantic trip to the city of canals, where you’ll be able to surround yourself with the love and mystery of the city. Rent apartments in Venice and enjoy some exploration of yourself too…

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Translated by: Poppy
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There is a great myth that exists in relation to women and faking orgasms. While many a man’s sexual pride derives from knowing that they have satisfied their partner, and assume that if the women says she has orgasms that they are in the clear, the reality is that you can never know 100% if a woman has come.

/> br /> Now a group of sexologists has showed that if your partner reaches orgasm 90% of the time it’s no problem if she pretends 10% of the time. Yes, at least according to experts, there’s nothing wrong if she uses her acting skills every once in a while, if most of the time things are working out- in fact she might no even be acting, just enjoying herself.

In fact, many sexologists explained that when a woman wants to reach orgasm but can’t, the best way to take herself to orgasm is to act as if she were having one- speeding up breathing, panting, moaning, moving her hips and perhaps even trying some subtle contractions of her pelvic floor. Why? Because these expressions of ecstasy “deceive” the thinking part of the brain, allowing the emotional side to relax and step up to provoke an orgasm.  Orgasms are an involuntary response, a culmination of many sensations and responses, not a math equation of stimulation multiplied by time equals orgasm.

However, it is a problem if your partner is always faking orgasm. You need to figure out, both together and apart, what really turns your partner on; in this case lying hinders communication and makes it more difficult to explore. It is also important to keep in mind that many women need to feel a lot of trust and intimacy with their partner before they really let go.

The best bet is to rent apartments in Venice, one of the most romantic cities in the world and explore with your partner everything that she needs to feel good.

In the world there are many ways to win a man but most of them are ineffective and only work on robots or schoolboys. Mom might say that the way to man’s heart is though his stomach, but as many a single good cook knows, even the best meal may leave you swallowing a bitter pill and doing all the dishes. A new study led by neuropsychiatrist Louann Brizendine found that everything could be related to sex.

The expert said in her new book that when the man is having an orgasm the brain releases a hormone called dopamine, part of the reward system that exists in the brain. What happens is that whenever relations are repeated with the same woman, the experience of this system “sticks” to this woman in particular and, ultimately, it could awaken feelings of love. But sadly, not all men have this system and that is why just having more sex with the person will not guarantee that they fall in love.

What determines this trend is called the vasopressin-receptor gene. This means that those men who have the longest gene are those that are more likely to fall in love. The rest? They only have room in their hearts for mom!

Moreover, the study confirmed what was long thought, men think about sex more often than women. In fact, they think about it three times more than women. This is because the brain area dedicated to sex they have is two and half times larger than that for women.

So now you know: if love is beginning to disappear from your relationship, activate the dopamine receptors in your mate’s brain by taking a vacation, renting apartments in Venice and performing multiple “science experiments.”



Why do we do things, why do we have sex? If you ask this question to a few people, the vast majority will reply that they do it because of pleasure. And because we know one and a million ways of having sex, we should never get bored (theoretically). But there are more reasons for having sex. One of the most astounding reasons is making love in order to “sleep”. Yes, and this is due to the fact that our bodies generate so many endorphins that the only thing they are still capable of doing after the orgasm is sleeping like a baby.

There are more reasons than the classic staple of motivations for love making like “out of love”, “in order to feel an orgasm”, “for relaxation”, “to get pregnant”, and this is “by contract”, Yes, a lot of couples are bound to have sex a number of times a week by contract. It seems crazy and only thinking about it makes me freak out. But mostly couples that travel a lot arrange things this way: when you get back home after a few days because of your work schedule, honestly, the only thing you want to do is to relax. Therefore it is not unusual that busy couples forget to take care of their love lives.

A few friends told me one of the funniest reasons for having sex. They rented wonderful apartments in Venice in the city centre so they could enjoy the Biennale. One evening they found themselves in a bar where they saw a few very famous American actresses who had been invited to the film festival. And just to be able say that they had slept with a famous movie star, both friends had sex with her. As you can see, there’s always a good reason for lovemaking, so just pick your favourite, and rent apartments in Venice.